I'm saying I don't care about the labels themselves, but I've seen enough people who both try and take the extra A out of the label and try to kick me out of the conversation. Not a safe space being used as a safe space, we'll be discussing something more specific and people will say I shouldn't be part of the conversation. That leads to echo chambers, which can be terrible. That's where I'm coming from. That all. By all means, use letters that fit what you're talking about and help you.