Example: A friend of an ex-friend of mine saw everything as an opportunity, everything was positive, landed in jail for drug use and possession, theft, domestic abuse, and more, numerous times. She took every opportunity afforded to her. never learned anything. Kept positive. Keeps asking why do these things happen to me? then does more crap to land herself in trouble. Some would say that she is living life to the fullest. I just can't see it that way.